People always say whatever happen, your family will be there for you and be understanding enough towards you. Is that always true? I really doubt so. When things goes wrong, have they ever spend some time and think about it than to start pushing the blame to others? Have they ever give people a chance to explain before they jump to any conclusions? Have they ever put themselves in my shoes and try understanding the situation I am facing? It’s always about money. Haven’t I contribute enough ever since I started work after my O levels? Even now I am still contributing to the family. I am not complaining. I am just asking them to be more understanding. Is that too much to ask for? When they need help, they will know how to ask me. When I need help, I can ask who? I didn’t blame them when I got to give up my tertiary education after studying for 1 year. I understand the situation and accepted it. And now having been in the workforce for several years, knowing the need to upgrade myself, I told them I wanted to study. There were no words of motivations from them. Instead, they told me there’s no need to study so much, considering the number of jobless graduates in Singapore now. I thought as parents, they should motivate their children in every way they can? I am not asking them to pay for my school fees. I am just asking for some motivation and approval from them. Is that too much to ask for too? Why people always seek their friends when they are troubled and unhappy? Why don’t they talk to their parents instead? Now I know why. Because they freaking don’t understand. They only know how to say the youngsters nowadays are ignorant and spoilt. I might be a problematic child when I was younger. But people do change. I am no longer that rebellious daughter of theirs but have they ever notice that change in me? I really doubt so. They are forever thinking of me as a good-for-nothing, undecisive, stubborn, narrow-minded, calculative and rebellious daughter. Go ahead and think what they wanna think of me. I will prove myself to them one day that they will be proud to have me as their daughter.
Archive for November, 2005
WeEkEnD sO FaSt oVeR LiAo
Why weekends always pass so fast de? Boring… Anyway, I am in a lazy mode today so I would just roughly update what I have done during the weekends. Friday went to Tampines Mall for dinner with my dear dear after work. Not knowing what to have and after thinking for some time, we decided to have dinner at Pastamania.
Saw Esther darling at Tampines =) So happy to see her wor
Went to Sitex 2005 at Expo on Saturday with my dear dear, Max, Dennis and Alicia. We met quite early at about 10 plus for breakfast at Bedok before we headed to Expo. We went there early to avoid human and traffic jams. After looking around for a few hours, we decided to head to Jalan Kayu (as suggested by Dennis & Alicia) for early dinner.
Happy Alicia and Dennis after eating the pratas =)
Super satisfied Max after eating his fav tissue prata
With the 1 year anniversary for me and my dear dear nearing, I have bought a little gift for him. I hope he like the gift and wearing it will remind him of me. Though it’s still early for the gift, but it’s better to be early than late *smiles*
It’s a pair of couple watches. One for him and one for myself.
zAtHuRa RaWkS!

Went for a movie date with my colleagues last night. Initially, we had wanted to watch Harry Potter but afraid that it will be a very long show. In the end, we decided on the Jumanji-alike movie, Zathura. I am not gonna tell you guys any spoilers here. All I can say is this movie totally rocks big time. It keeps u in suspense practically throughout the show. It’s even more exciting than Jumanji leh. Don’t miss this exciting movie or u will regret it de. Am bringing my dear prince for this movie this weekend. I don’t mind watching it again and I want my dear prince to enjoy this awesome movie too. Took some photos with my colleagues last night and will upload them tonight. As for the closure of Noelle’s blog, it’s due to her busy schedule of work which didn’t allow her much time to blog. And also because she doesn’t want her blogging to jeopardize her job. It’s not easy to get a job you so love and treasure. Therefore, closing down their blogs was the best solution lor. We are all gonna miss their blog updates but let’s all think in a more positive way. We also want them to be happy right? So let’s just give them our best wishes in their life and career ba. Gambatte! Lastly, may all of you have a great weekend ahead =)
One of the funny conversations between the 2 brothers in Zathura
Danny: I’m hungry. Can you fix me some macaroni and cheese?
Walter: Don’t know how to make it.
Danny: What do you know how to make?
Walter: Water.
DeJaVu FiBerWiG
Saw this product in a magazine recently. It was said to be the No.1 best seller in Japan since it’s launch. I seldom use mascara de so coming by new products advertised on magazines purely increase my knowledge on latest beauty products. Last night went for dinner with my dear dear at Hougang and do some window shopping after that. Chanced upon this familiar red packaging at Hougang Mall SaSa. I took a copy of the leaflet and this is what I saw.
“Liquefied FAKE lashes! No Clumps! No flakes! No panda eyes! Lashes so unbelievably long you’d think it’s fake! It’s REAL!”
I stood there thinking “Wu yiah boh? An ni li hai meh?” So I walked to the display panel and took a look at the testers provided. Like normal mascara leh. But it’s made in Japan wor. It’s No.1 best seller in Japan wor. In the end, I bought one to try. Haha… Say so much, think so long, in the end I still buy lor. Aiya, try try first mah. If don’t try, how I know what they advertised is real or not. Dio boh? Anyway, I will update the review of this “shen qi” mascara after I tried it. *wink*
Next, I would like to comment on the blog closure of my 2 darlings, Elaine and Apple. It’s really sad to know that they have to close their blog, especially Elaine’s blog. Reason being I seldom get to meet up with her and only through her blog, I get to know where she have been, whether she’s getting on fine and the wonderful pictures she shared on the places she went. It’s really a pity but for the sake of her beloved job, she gonna give up her blog. I would have done the same too if having a blog will jeopardise my career.
Special note to Elaine : Ahneh darling, with the closure of your blog, you just gonna make up to us by trying to meet up more often hor. Will definitely miss your Chivas sessions updates and the nice photos of the beautiful places you went. Keke… Take care =)
Special note to Apple : Blur Queen darling, with the closure of your blog, we(the DB darlings)will give you all the time you need on our weekly gatherings for you to update us your happenings. Don’t say we buay steady hor. LOL!
LiFe cAn Be bEtTeR

Don’t laugh at the picture above because that’s exactly how I look right now. Freaking boring lor. With the cooling weather these few days, I began to feel my body and mind starting to go into hibernation mode. I wish I could lie down on my bed, cover myself with my M&M’s comforter, close my eyes and drift off to my little lala land now. But of course cannot lah. Unless my boss grant me off lor. Haha… Lagi more impossible. Too bored until I start talking rubbish liao. Sang nao jing~ Been pondering over lots of things lately and I realised I have alot of things to accomplish but it seems like time is not enough. Either that, money is not enough. Whatever it is, I got to start planning now. Am now saving hard for my diploma. Yes, I have decided to further my studies and will be registering for the course in March next year. Supposed to register for it next month for their first intake but couldn’t save enough money in time. That’s why gonna register for their second intake lor. I couldn’t imagine myself starting to study again because I am a slow learner in studies. Since I will be paying the fees myself, I got to study hard. Going through tough times will make me a stronger person, dio boh? Wish me all the best ba! *wink*
LaM sEk eH MoNdAy
Anybody out there having “lam sek eh”(blue in Hokkien lah~) Monday like me? Well, I am not having severe blues but kinda feeling restless. It’s not because I dislike my job but it’s pretty normal to suffer Monday blues de mah. Anyway, just wanna briefly update what I have done during the weekend. Went to watch Exorcism of Emily Rose with my dear dear on Friday after work at Cineleisure. Quite a nice show. The part where I find the most eerie is the timing 3am. Why is that so because I tend to wake up in the middle of the night at times. And whenever I wake up, I will take a look at the time on my handphone. Aiya, see still got how many hours left to sleep before the alarm start to ring mah. So after I watched that show, I got kinda scared when I woke up in the middle of the night. Silently praying that it’s not 3am when I checked the time on my handphone. Sial la, you all can’t blame me for being scared wor. Because this movie is based on true story leh. Didn’t do much on Saturday and Sunday. I helped my dear dear to dye his hair, watched him play his PS2, watched several DVDs and taking naps when tired. Just laze around for the 2 days. Quite shiok wor. I gonna continue my online shopping at yahoo auctions liao. Since I can’t go for some retail therapy now(working hours mah~), I just browse through the yahoo auctions to satisfy my shopping craves first. Ziam si dong seng~ Wish me happy E-shopping =)
FaMoUs oR iNfAmOuS bLoGGer
Is it wrong to blog about your life? Is it necessary for people to judge you from the way you blog and the things you blog? Do those so-called flamers feel great after leaving sarcastic and nasty remarks in the tagboard? Do you think people blog to get famous? Or infamous? Some people blog to remind them of the things they have done everyday like writing their diary. Some people blog to share their life experiences. Some really blog to get famous but that’s the minority lah~ As for me, I treat blogging as writing my online diary. I just wanna take down what I have done everyday so that I could read it when I am free to relish the memories. People who visit my blog either like or dislike the way I blog or the things I blog. But that doesn’t really bother me much because it’s their choice to choose whether they wanna visit my blog or not. I didn’t force them to visit my blog. It’s at their own will de. So if you don’t like what you see here, then why bother visiting my blog? Contradicting isn’t it? Sad to say there are just such people around. I always believe retribution. Karma you know~ What goes around comes around. By all means, do whatever bad things you wanna do to others. But what you did to others will befall on you some day de. Ok lah… Enough of my preaching again. Today is Friday I know. Weekends again. I so love weekends. Can meet my dear prince =) May all of you have a great weekends!
BuSy BiTcHeS
Am I the only one who is more free? I really hope not wor. Maybe I should say I am busy too but not as busy as my beloved darlings ba. They are all so busy that they didn’t even update their blog. That is so not like them lor. No matter how busy they are, they will still try their best to update their blog de. Haiz, I can understand why they are so busy le. They are busy earning money because they got to pay and support their cars. Buy car easy but support not easy wor. As for me, I no need to worry because I don’t even have a driving license. So don’t even mention buying a car. Haha… What’s more important to me now is to further my studies. Currently saving up hard so that I could start my course begining next year. It’s gonna be hard juggling work and studies but the constant motivation from my dear dear will keep me going de. Gonna work hard now when I am still young and my brain haven’t turn rusty yet. Before I end, I just wanna tell the busy bitches that I miss them lots and while they are busy working, do remember to take good care of themselves and must think of me too. Keke… Share with you guys a joke below. Have a great day ahead!
The Centers for Disease Control have released a list of symptoms of bird
flu.
If you experience any of the following, please seek medical treatment
immediately:
1. High fever
2. Congestion
3. Nausea
4. Fatigue
5. Aching in the joints
6. An irresistible urge to shit on someone’s windshield
















